Controversial Actress, Halima Abubakar has disclosed that she gets upset when she reads blog comments about her.
In a new interview with
the Netng, Halima said “That’s like physical bullying. Online, they are
invisible. I believe if you have a problem with me, you should approach
me. But if you go online and comment as anonymous or use a strange name,
you are still bringing yourself down. Yes, you would make me feel sad,
but the damage will not be permanent, but temporary until I am strong
enough not to read those comments again.
“I am going to say it
that I am not one of those actresses that say they don’t read blogs. I
do. I have been reading blogs for the past five years or so, but I have
never commented. Sometimes I am pushed to insult everybody there and
comment under anonymous. But then I tell myself, well, they would always
remain anonymous while I stay relevant. And so, I bear most of the
insults and try not to be bothered about them. It was not easy.
I was depressed for a long time because of things like that. I just
felt that people didn’t like me. I didn’t understand how people could
still hate me even when I know I am one of the nicest people in
Nollywood. I am not disrespecting anybody, I am just saying that even if
someone has hurt me several times, I will still be nice to the person.
People just go ahead and
bash me for no reasons. They don’t even know me and they are saying this
and that. Before, I will cry and cry and get depressed. But now, I
don’t even bother myself anymore. They don’t know what I’m going through
and they don’t know my story.” She disclosed.
http://dailystar.com.ng/2014/01/20/im-sad-read-blog-comments-halima-abubakar/
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